Friday, 18 August 2017

Ella's Summer Meme

Our friend Ella shared a lovely meme with us and me being a sucker for them - just had to do it.

Here's my answers....

1.  Name a tender song that can almost make you cry.
Not tender but Everybody Hurts by R.E.M. gets me every time.

2.  What is your favourite shade of lipstick?  What about nail polish?  If you do not wear lipstick or polish, what do you like or dislike about the shades you see others wear?
My favourite lipstick is Chanel Rouge Coco Mademoiselle. 

Nail polish - I love to see bright colours on nails but for me it's soft ones. I don't think bright colours suit my hands.

3.  Name a children's nursery rhyme or song that you loved and to which you remember all the words.
Remember the words to lots of nursery rhymes but never had a favourite or not that I can remember.

4.  What outfit would you put on in the morning if you wanted to feel happy and well dressed?  Something in which you think you look pretty damn good!
Depends on where I am going. Normally I just wear what feels comfortable.

5.  If you had enough money to buy just one, would it be a cottage by the ocean or a cabin in the mountains?
Easy decision for me. It would be the cottage as I always feel so at home by the ocean. 

6.  If you are old enough, which one of the Beatles did you have a "thing" for?  If you are not that old, tell us a musician that really did it for you.
I loved the Beatles but never really had a big thing for any of them though John Lennon was my favourite. For me it was Peter Noone from the Herman's Hermits

and Rod Stewart

7.  Name a smell that you love - could be kitchen, outdoors, person, your choice.
There are lots of smells I love - the ocean, freshly baked bread leather and the smell of a real Christmas tree.

8.  How often do you defuzz your legs.  Wax, razor, or electric?
I defuzz 3-4 times a week with a razor in the shower.

9.  How/why did you choose your blog name?
No light bulb moment or anything personal. As I had already chosen Ronnie Soul, I was taking to P about a name and said need something to go with soul and he suggested Heart so Heart and Soul it was.

10.  What do you like to eat for breakfast?  To drink?  Coffee or tea?
Hot water with lemon, small bowl of porridge with fruit or just fruit and yogurt and decaf tea. Decaf tea and water for the rest of the day. 

11.  How many siblings do you have?  Or are you an only child? Are you the oldest, a middle, or the youngest child?
I'm an only child.

12.  What is your favourite salad dressing?
Don't actually do salad dressing.  Olive oil over my salad though when I have a caesar salad (which I love) I have a little caesar dressing.

13.  If you could sit next to anyone (alive) on a long plane trip, who would you pick?
Personally I don't like to talk when I'm flying (unless it's to P) I prefer to just sit and read.

14.  Have you ever gone shopping just to cheer yourself up?
I don't mind shopping but can't say I've gone shopping to cheer myself up.

15.  If there is one thing that can make you lose your temper, what would it be?
Don't get me started:)

16.  Tell us about the best photograph you have ever had taken.
I'm hopeless at taking photos and I hate having mine taken. The best ones are of son when he was small. 

17.  Have you ever gone skinny-dipping and where?
Oh yes when we are on holiday and rent a private villa with pool.

18.  What do you like on your pizza?  What don't you like on your pizza?
Don't do pizzas but if I had to have one it would be vegetarian (no I'm not a vegetarian) -  mozzarella cheese, spinach, mushrooms, garlic red peppers, black olives and red onion. Don't like smoked or spicy meats.

Ella, thanks for the meme.

Have a fun weekend.


Wednesday, 16 August 2017

A Smile for Today and a Thank You

A Smile for today - well two actually:)

I don't normally mention individuals who visit my little blog as I appreciate everyone who stops by whether they leave a comment or not but I would like to thank one particular lady.

That lady is Roz. 

Roz - you comment on everyone of my posts and I see your lovely comments on others, goodness knows how you do it. You are always kind, friendly, helpful and encouraging. So a big thank you from me.


Let me know if first picture is yours.
Girls having fun - found on eBay.

Monday, 14 August 2017

In with the New - Another Short Summer Edition

A short edition for your reading pleasure. Enjoy.

Mischief Mostly Managed
The blog of a feisty, mostly submissive wife.

Sister of Stone Erotica
Author of Erotica.

Thoughts of Him
Servitude and love for Her Master.

Kitty Dagger Writes
Kitty is in her 30’s, pansexual and in a long-term relationship with a pansexual man. Active in their local BDSM scene, and I wanted somewhere to share my accumulated knowledge.

Lucy Hannon
Blushable stories for the discerning reader means BDSM, anal play, pegging, femdom, maledom, spanking and more. 

Wicked Daddy's Blog 
He is as much a Master, as he is a Sir, or a Daddy. He empathically adapt to his sub, and enjoy all of it.

Monsoon Erotica
A new blog intended for publicising his/her erotic fiction. 

Little Girl Hannah Rose
Hannah in a domestic discipline relationship with her Daddy. Sometimes it's fun for her, other times, not so much. 

Diary of Seven
Seven is new to the BDSM scene. Cosmopolitan Girl in a vanilla world. Feisty, argumentative yet obedient.  She is open to sharing her experiences as she explores her sexuality being in her first Sub/Dom relationship.

My World of Erotica
Stories and Poems from her Erotic Mind.

Spanked Hubby
Keep great sex alive, try every way imaginable, but be safe, sane, and consensual. 

Have a good week


Friday, 11 August 2017

My most (so far) viewed post - Spanked to Orgasm

Amy thought it would be interesting if we re-posted our most (so far) viewed post. I did look and was surprised - I thought it would have been an 'In with the New' edition but no, it was a discussion I found on a forum regarding orgasm from spanking only which I posted on 8th May 2012.

Here's the full re-post.....

I found this question on a discussion forum over a year old, there were loads of answers to it but I thought, as I've never seen it raised on a blog within our little community, that I'd pose it afresh and see what people think, if anyone is interested in replying please do. This was the question, posed by 'wideawakeone' :-

Orgasm from spanking only?
Sat Apr 16, 2011 12:02 pm

Have any of you ever had an orgasm from spanking alone, with no genital or other stimulation? (Or for Tops, have you had a bottom experience orgasm while being spanked?)

Is the experience of having an orgasm during a spanking different from having one through direct genital stimulation? I would imagine so.

I've never had this happen to me, but given how turned on I get during a spanking, I would think that I might get there if I had a patient, skillful Top and all the time in the world not to be rushed. wideawakeone.

My response at the time of the post....

It's only fair, seeing as I'm inviting responses to such a personal question, that I should give my own response which is that no, I've never had an orgasm from spanking alone but, like wideawakeone, I do get very turned on before and during spankings (with a few exceptions) and I would imagine it could happen, in fact I'm so intrigued by the idea that I'm going to mention it to P. So I can't answer the second part of her question (yet) but I bet some of you could.

Then by coincidence - Hermione posted about the same subject.

If you want to read responses to the original post go here and scroll down until you reach comments.

Have a fun weekend.


Wednesday, 9 August 2017

How embarrassing

I am uncovered, a ruined woman, exposed. Well maybe.

You see I keep a few canes at my office, it isn't really an office more of a storage facility where I keep other items I sell online and have done for years, it does have a desk though and a little packing area so I suppose it is technically an office. Anyway I had to consent to the maintenance man accessing my little store room on Friday last week. I got a phone call saying one of the guys in the age care charity office had reported noises from inside and they knew I wasn't in. Dave, the maintenance man who we've known for years, asked if I could come in or could he have my permission to go in because he'd stood outside my room and heard the noise himself. I asked him if P was in his office but he wasn't. I said I couldn't get there in less than about forty minutes and I'd make a quick phone call to my husband and call him back in minutes.

I've got no problem with Dave going into my office trust-wise but I couldn't remember whether I'd left any spanking implements out on view, or even whether the top flaps on the box containing them were open or closed. I tried P's phone but he didn't answer, then I thought quickly the longer I delay calling back the worse it will seem, as if I'm trying to hide something (which I was), so I called Dave back very quickly and sounding as casual as possible just said, "No good Dave, sorry I thought P might be nearby and save you the hassle but he's not answering so sure, go ahead by all means. Do you want me to stay on the phone while you go in?" He said he didn't and that he'd call me back after he'd investigated.

Half an hour later I got a call back, there was a bird in there, my window was open about ten centimetres and it must have flown in, a real fluke. He said the alarm couldn't have been set or it would have gone off immediately. Anyway he'd got rid of it and locked up, he said there was some bird poo on my desk but he couldn't see any anywhere else. Shit (no pun), I thought, so he'd had a look around. I just said "Great thanks Dave, I'll be in later so I'll clean up, sorry about that can't imagine who left the window open, maybe Clare's been up there, anyway thanks again".

I didn't go straight to the office, I waited for P to call me back and told him what had happened and what I was worried about. He said it was no problem and I'd done the right thing answering Dave very quickly. He said the best thing to do was to just be normal when I went in and ask Dave to go back upstairs with me when I did turn up, in case there were any more birds, he said he knew that was ridiculous but men expected women to be ridiculous about things like that. Then, once in the office, make a point of shifting a few boxes to make sure another bird hadn't come  in, and make sure to shuffle the canes box if the lid flaps were open and to make a comment on it. I asked him what sort of bloody comment could I make? He thought for a bit and then said,

"Hmm ok, leave it then and I'll get back to the office later and ask Dave to open up for me because I haven't got a key with me. I'll think of something to say about the canes, no problem. All you need to worry about is why your window was left open and why the alarm wasn't set. Naughty girl, see what can happen when you get slack, I think you need a little reprimand."

P told me later he'd spun Dave some yarn about me buying a job lot of stuff from a shop closure off ebay and the canes had been amongst it, weird stuff the things people got up to. He said Dave didn't seem too interested, just sort of tut tutted and shook his head. I said well that might be how he was with you, bloke to bloke, but he might have a look in his eye next time he sees me. 

Anyway it's done now and I suppose I'll brazen it out next time I see Dave. I haven't been reprimanded for it yet but P does say his headaches are reducing:)


Monday, 7 August 2017


I met with Jan, Rosie, Ami and our friend from across the pond, Minelle, in London last Thursday and what a time we had. The poor waitress kept coming over to see if we were ready to order lunch but because of all the talking, laughing and gift exchanging we kept having to say no, sorry not ready yet. She was lovely and patient with us.  The time just flew by and before we knew it, it was time to head home.

I was given lovely gifts (thank you) This is one of them.

Isn't it lovely. Minelle is one talented lady.

I think you can guess what I gave them.....

You guessed it -  a small OTK cane. 

I hope they have fun having it used and find out that not all canes are evil:)

They are all terrific ladies. Smart, intelligent, caring, friendly, funny, really very very nice. Thank you ladies. I hope it won't be too long before we get together again.

Have a good week everyone.


Friday, 4 August 2017


Here's a few spanking gifs I found on my travels.

Don't remember this spanking from Bonanza.

Think this this one is from a film, anyone know?

Have a fun weekend.


Pictures from Bonanza Boomers - FM Spanking and discipline for bad boys. Not sure where the other two came from.